Sometimes people choose to shield other relatives or friends from the truth, for years on end. But, in fact those people deserve to hear the truth and not have information withheld from them, in order to move on with their lives.
I know a lot of unanswered questions lead to confusion and a lot of feelings left frayed at the end.
When people listen to only one side of the story, they are really shortchanged and they have no idea about the FACT of things, but only know of that one version of the “truth”.
I have recently found out some things that I hadn’t previously known and it is a vast difference than the things I was always told. It leaves me a little confused and shocked by the lack of honesty on the part of one party. I feel cheated and brainwashed, quite frankly.
It’s going to take me quite some time to sift through the years of lies I’ve been told, and try and accept this new version of the “truth”.
But, I think every person deserves to hear two sides to every story. As much as the information hurts or doesn’t hurt, it’s important to let everyone have the opportunity to know all the details involved and go from there.
So, if you’re someone seeking the truth or someone who has been shielding someone you know from the truth, remember that the decision you make is pivotal and will possibly cause a lot of happiness or grief (on the other hand), depending on what you choose to do.
So, CHOOSE to take part in making someone’s life better and clarifying things for them, instead of causing a lot of pain to someone and leaving the person with a lot of unanswered questions.
You are the key to making a difference…
