All too often people are under stress or dealing with a situation they’d rather not be in, that seems to fray their nerves and leave them open for completely having a meltdown once the smallest things happens. But then when someone does something that doesn’t strike their fancy, even if it’s the slightest little thing, they seem to go off the deep end.
They scream, shout, curse, say horribly hurtful things, and it is just plain ugly. Once the problem has passed, the offender usually is back to their perky selves, but the person who was verbally attacked, still has to deal with the pain they felt because of all the hurtful words being flung at them.
If you or someone you know is angry, just leave them alone until they can get over their little “hissy-fit” and then when they are back to their “normal” personality, you can ask them what was wrong and go from there.
My advice is to stay as far away from people who are extremely angry and seeing red, so that you spare yourself the grief and speak to them when their minds are back on the track to sanity not insanity.
Just my opinion, but think about it next time before you blow up on innocent bystanders, because you wouldn’t want the tables turned and someone to attack you for no good reason, now would you?
